MotherRoots Healing Arts
Craniosacral Therapy, Somato-Emotional Release, Massage and Spiritual Counsel through Astrology and Tea-Talks are all ways I can work with clients on their healing journeys. I also love to teach women about the seasons and cycles of the earth and moon and the ways that living in harmony with them can bring great joy, harmony and depth to our lives. In my Roots Deep, Branches Rising circles and other classes, women gather to celebrate the journey of being a woman through song, chant, art, ritual, connection to nature and emotional-healing exercises.
Have I mentioned how much I love the entire concept and feeling of being grateful? It is TRULY the secret KEY to joy. I even love the word. Just saying the word, GRATITUDE, brings me into my heart where it's energy of thankfulness fills my entire body. Gratitude is the most remarkable feeling to me. The Grateful Heart is the heart that shines and glows; it is the heart that beats in peace. When I'm grateful for everything I have been given, grateful for the simple gifts of life, it does not mean that I can't also want something else; it just means that what I want is what is more authentic to who I am. Gratitude is like a washing away of the hunger. It leaves me full of light and love and satisfaction. From this place of love and fullness, I feel Holy. I really do. This is what I have discovered: Standing beside peacefulness and happiness, there are other important things that happen when I focus on my blessings. When I am feeling grateful for what I have, all the rest of the busy-ness and craziness of life and the media and the world falls away. When Gratitude Happiness dances in my heart, all of a sudden I can tune into what I TRULY want and need. All the "shoulds" go away. (You should be doing this. You should be working on that...Why don't you have this yet? Why haven't you accomplished that yet? You should have done such and such by this age) All these wicked, internal pressures go away. I begin to see and feel my purpose for being alive! I see how one road led to the next. I see the synchronicities. I see the golden thread of a vocation, a calling, woven through my entire life and how each and every step, turn, twist, fall and rise of my path has brought me here to this exact spot. I can see it and follow it to fulfillment when I am at peace with my life, my past and all that the past has taught me. And when I am grateful, I can feel who I am INSIDE. When I feel who I am, I am in touch with my Calling. And I remember, YES! Oh yes, I now remember the things that make me so happy I could scream, jump on the table, fall down and die right now because I am so happy and I have lived fully doing this thing I love more than anything in the world! I remember those things and then I can get back on track doing what I most love to do. Your calling does not feel like WORK. It feels like, THIS IS EXACTLY WHY I WAS BORN, inside you. It feels like, GOD, inside you. It feels like, I AM HOME, inside you.
Melissa Potter, LMT
“The cure for anything is salt water: sweat, tears, or the sea.”
I have a raw hunger for water; cold, ocean water, flowing water, singing waters over stone. I love the morning, misty peace of a clean pond. Our stormy, wild Atlantic Ocean is the greatest healer I have ever met.
This past weekend I visited the ocean with some friends who live nearby. Whenever I am in the presence of the sea, I'm afraid I'll never leave the rolling, wave~love of the Mother Ocean.
It's late May now and I wonder if there is a more perfect time of the year to offer myself to the body of the Goddess of the Sea!
Walking along the shore or swimming out just past over-my-head is my preference. I once said to my old friend Barbara, "I love the ocean!" She replied, in her practical, Taurus way: "No you don't. You love the shore." She's right about this. I'm not a fan of deep, dark water except from a distance and in it's symbolic reference to the depths of our unconscious selves; our deep psyche! Oh, then I love the deep waters!
Water as the Symbol of Our Deepest Self
At the sea, in a bath, or by a crystal-clear, clean pond at sunrise I am filled all the way through myself and feel overflowing with love. I am welcomed home. I feel so
And that, too, is how it feels when I am at peace with my emotions. This is how it feels after I have held, in honor (even if with great difficulty and feeling like I am being tortured in the process!) the fire of my anger, the depth of my grief, the ecstasy of my joy and the song of hope and faith that gets me through the journey that is my soulful life. Water is indeed the symbol of our emotions, our soul, and our subconscious selves. Yet it also brings us right here into the very conscious, totally aware place of this very moment.
I have always said that I would rather be fully alive and feeling everything I can than living in a state of numbness (though sometimes we need this too, for a little while, as a reprieve from pain...) because if I am closing off my feelings of anger, you can believe that I am also closing off my feelings of passion, creativity and power. If I am closing off my feelings of sadness and grief, you can believe that I am also closing off my feelings of love and joy.
I got a vanity plate this year; SEA MOON. I love this because it reminds me of my love of the sea, the moon and what these things represent to me: intuition, magic, dreams, emotions, history, family, safety and security, rhythm, wildness, healing, peacefulness, the sacred night, ancient women's mysteries, raw beauty, wisdom, and our instinctual nature...
The Song of the Seals
When I spend time near the ocean, it's as if I have risen out of this great, salty cauldron of transformation and I feel that my seal-skin, my soul-skin as Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estes calls it, has been returned to me.
These archetypal stories bring me very deeply into my own soul then up again to float on the waves; a reprieve, a rest, a blessing from the bright sun before we
return again to the magical depths to do the work of our souls.
Through the most profound pain of my life, love comes to me thru magical synchronicity and divine timing. Divine guidance, blessings, miracles and messages come to us from every direction. Opening the soul-eyes helps us to see these! Some of my favorite serendipitous experiences involve seals.
One year at sunrise on my birthday: we swam naked in the sea on Cape Cod. To my delight and surprise, I noticed a seal near me, in the water!
On another visit to the Cape, my son and other children were swimming at sunset in the waves. Red light from the lighthouse behind us rhythmically scanned the waters. "What is that beside the children?" I asked my partner. Seals!
More recently, I went to the ocean at Beltane, the sacred holiday of my Celtic ancestors, falling halfway between Spring Equinox and Summer Solstice. It rained in the night by the sea. I pulled my car into several look-out points but kept feeling called to move further along the coast. Finally, I saw the perfect opening between boulders. It drew me closer. "The gateway...", I thought. Even through the thick fog and rain, I saw it. A swimming, jumping seal. Suddenly, another followed behind.
The seals were my gift from the Mother.
First one, then two; swimming in that wild sea!
Magic discovered by my intuition calling me
to that pull-in, to look at the wind-swept waves.
Beyond them, my eyes caught the first Seal Maiden!
And the one following behind is my true love.
This written last spring:
I got lost this past weekend in Maine - took a wrong
turn somewhere, but oh, what a blessing in disguise, and under the direction of La Que Sabe, The One Who Knows, because while driving the winding road within feet of the sea, I came upon a life-sized sculpture of Neptune
with his trident! Oh my God of the Sea, my Goddess of the Sea, how I longed to jump in that body of water, as naked as on the day of my birth like one of the Wild Seal Maidens!
A Sacred Container
In my work, I am a witness to many emotions. For those of you who understand astrology, my Moon is in the fourth house in the sign of Cancer. I am at home with emotions. Creating space for, and offering emotional safety to others is one of my highest priorities in life. I am committed to expressing my own emotions, however challenging and I strive to learn as many skills as I can to strengthen my ability to offer emotional counsel to others. I know that one of my gifts to the world is a true comfort with emotions of all sizes, shapes and intensities! I tell my clients, "I will create a sacred container for you, a sacred space for you to shed your tears, speak your truth, tell your stories, explore your dreams (nighttime or otherwise!) and feel your rage, grief and pain."
We are mind, body, soul and emotions. Our emotions are our guides. Our love and passions guide us to our joy. Our anger brings us to our power and informs us about what is and what is not acceptable and authentic to our life. Our sadness washes us clean, releases the past and allows new doors to open.
Welcoming your emotions brings you home to yourself. When I feel something, I say to myself, "Welcome Home. This feeling is welcoming me back into my body. This is where life is. This is where love is. This is where my hope and my dreams are."
Welcome Home to the Beloved.
You are the Beloved you have been waiting for all of your life.